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Parents are the external regulator for kids who cannot regulate themselves.

Children fare better when expectations on them are clear and firm.

The challenge of adolescence is to balance the right of the parents to feel they are in charge with the need of the adolescent to gain independence.

If it  was going to be easy to raise kids, it never would have started with something called "labour".

Children today are under enormous pressures rarely experienced by their parents or grandparents. Many of today's children are being enticed to grow up too quickly and are encountering challenges for which they are totally unprepared.

Children do not develop on their own - they only develop within relationships.

Whining and crying are employed by kids for the purpose of getting something. If it works, then it was worth the effort and will be repeated.

Adolescence can be the cruelest place on earth. It can really be heartless.  ( Tori Amos)

If there is no relationship - nothing else matters !

A tantruming toddler is a little ball of writhing muscle and incredible strength. It's like trying to carry a greased pig past a slop bucket.

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Brain Facts # 1

 

 

The traditional school environment works well for children when their natural love for learning is sound and for children whose brains are hardwired to be able to sit, behave and stay focused in a classroom. The traditional environment however does not work well for those children who are not so blessed. Welcome to the world of the Child & Youth Worker  whose job it is to figure out how to make life  better for exceptional children.

All of our behaviour  (conscious and unconscious) is controlled by our brain. I am teaching a psychology course in the  first year Child & Youth Worker program at Fanshawe College (Woodstock, Ontario campus) called “Special Education & Assistive Technology”.  I  will be devoting each Tuesday’s blog (for the next 15 weeks) to information dealing with the form, function and health of the human brain as part of this course and it is meant to compliment the course work. I believe it will be of interest to all of my regular readers also.

“No discussion about human learning should ever take place unless the human brain is the centerpiece of the discussion.”(Kenneth Wesson)

 

CLASSROOM & HOMEWORK TIPS for SPECIAL LEARNERS 

#1. Do a Quick Review Before Class  – Review textbook chapters before the teacher lectures about this in class. This process gives your brain enough knowledge to help you pay better attention in class. You can reduce study and homework time if you have a deeper understanding of the material.

 

 

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