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Don’t wait for him to turn 10 before you reveal that you are not in fact the hired help whose job it is to clean up after him.

“The thing that impresses me most about North America is the way parents obey their children”    (King Edward VII , 1841-1910)

Good parenting requires sacrifice. Childhood lasts for only a few brief years , but it should be given priority while it is passing before your eyes

“Unexpressed feeling never die. They are buried alive and come back later in ugly ways.” (Stephen Covey)

Children today are under enormous pressures rarely experienced by their parents or grandparents. Many of today’s children are being enticed to grow up too quickly and are encountering challenges for which they are totally unprepared.

Wouldn’t it be nice if children would simply listen and learn.

You cannot reason with someone who is being unreasonable.

“Moody” and “unpredictable” are adjectives parents will often use when referring to their teenagers.

The brain is the boss of behaviour.

Change the brain = change the behaviour.

Parenting style matters – a lot!

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Causes of Depression in Teens

CAUSES not clearly understood no consensus interaction between: – brain chemistry – genetic vulnerability, life events, coping skills There is no gene or gene cluster, no one environmental factor or a single loss or traumatic event that triggers major depression. Very conscientious, perfectionist types appear to be more prone to depression than their easy going peers. Major depressive disorder  usually spontaneously passes within 2 years. It has a tendency to reoccur in later years. All [...]

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Depression – What It Is & What It Is Not

Depression is not: – a sign of weakness – a punishment for past wrongs – a flaw in a person’s character or  personality – the young person’s fault It is an illness that results in: – emotional changes – physical changes – cognitive changes – behavioural changes HOW COMMON IS IT ? – between 5-15% of all older children &  teens – a high school with 1000 students is likely to have 100 kids suffer [...]

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The Value of “Reading Rescue”

I would like to give you an update on the progress of a young boy who has been taking the Reading Rescue program. He is a grade 4 student in a regular classroom, who because of significant learning problems has been  falling  behind his classmates in all of his subjects. The reason for his reading problems is NOT because he can’t learn, it’s because of a  real learning disability. Most children learn to read in [...]

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Depression – What do the young people say about it ?

“It was like a dread inside, there all the time. When I was with my friends it would go away a bit, but it always came back.”                                                                                                 [...]

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What Does Depression in Young People Look Like?

The following is an excerpt from a book by Carol Fitzpatrick and John Sharry. Case Study: “Debbie, aged 13, has not been to school for 8 weeks. She got the flu 3 months ago and was out of school for a week. She was determined to get back as quickly as possible as she is a conscientious student who works very hard and who likes to be and expects to be at the top of [...]

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Workshops

+ Behaviour Management

This full day or 2 evening workshop will introduce you [...]

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+ Reading Rescue

A program for children with reading problems

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+ Taming a Toddler

Many parents wonder what hit them when their sweet little baby turns into an unreasonable toddler – ideas for dealing with mealtime, bedtime, temper tanturms, toilet training, noncompliance, etc.

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+ A Guided Tour of ADHD

This workshop will present the facts, myths, misconceptions, controversy and [...]

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